
TIME- Most of the people start their Boy -Girl relationship during the teen life. As teenagers ( or youth), mostly of us are in schools where we study, make friends, and learn some lessons. But hey! As I've said earlier this BG relationship starts during our youth and while we are still youth we are studying. Then how come this relationship can affect our time? Simply, our original study time is minimized, less time for our family and for ourselves, and have more time in dating!
MONEY- In school, teachers are being paid through tuition fees and tuition fees are being paid by students themselves. Money doesn't only involve in tuition but also in handouts, meals, fares and other academic stuff.
Yet, when we enter in such relationship our budget for our academics is now lesser than we ought to have, then we spend some (or maybe more) money for our partner. Most of us now own a cellular phone, and this gadget can't be used without any load, in short when your partner can't send you a message you are responsible to give him/her a load. ( Strike one! Two more to go!). Next, as we all know Valentine's day is a very important day for lovers, Boys give their gifts such as stuff toys, chocolates, dresses, to their girl. (Strike two!) Also, their day can't be complete without a romantic candle light dinner. ( Strike Three! You're out! )
LOVE- This thing is powerful and maybe you would wonder this can affect us. Well, I can explain this simply, our Creator created us and He loves us and He always expects to be loved by us, but when we have our special relationship our love is transferred to our partners and a little to Him and also to our parents.
DECISIONS- In our everyday lives, we always make decisions. When we make decisions for ourselves sometimes there is someone that offend us. Sometimes, the sad thing about this is that when you and your partner face a decision, the boy wants the girl to decide and the girl wants the boy to decide, and it ends up in nothing.
LIFE- This is the critical! When you are involve in such BG relationship, your time, money, love, and decisions are affected. This time, when this four aspects became negative, which I mean If sometime in our life when we feel busy, no money, don't know what to do, thinking of no one loves us then our life becomes miserable.
So, therefore, I conclude that you should be careful to do what is right for you and for the others!!